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Ally Hamilton's avatar

I loved this for so many reasons, Nan. First and foremost because of your huge heart. I was born in NYC and lived through those grief-filled days. And second, my mother was the queen of staying clean. It took me years to realize getting dirty was part of the fun and that you can try to be in control all you want, but it’s futile and even kind of funny. Glad you’re staying cool :)

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Diane Sabesin Tepper's avatar

“Mud in your Eye.” You are right Nan. We were obsessed with cleanliness. As I read your essay, I was proud of your compassion working with HIV patients. I remember that time, and was worried about you. The general consensus “was stay away from them”, or your life might get messy. Not you! You said yes. As always, your humor and descriptive words make your essays come alive. As your mother, I am constantly getting to know you, and myself, and loving you even more every day.

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