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Ann Hutton's avatar

"Carrying around an eating disorder is a heavy load." Best statement! Maybe the best revelation. I perceive this through a motherly lens (of course). In loving the self, a measure of pure compassion changes everything. If you imagine yourself as the innocent child you once were, would you--as her parent--force this heavy load onto her back? Onto her soul? Very punitive and uncompassionate way to express love, in my book. I am so happy that you have found a program that underlines compassion. And wholeness. And acceptance. If you never lose another ounce, you are still perfect. XXX

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diane reeder's avatar

This makes me ponder if my own goal should be happiness and healthiness, a healthiness determined not by my dress size but by the fullness of my life. Can I GO and can I DO things that bring me joy, or is my physical condition preventing my joy? Can I get myself to a point that I can readily plan an outing and know I can get through it and get to some joy while I’m at it? It’s a leap of fantasy right now, but reading your journey is inspiring.

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